Have you ever had someone in your life that made your life really difficult, someone who kind of made your life hell. I want to share with you someone in my life and made my life super difficult and almost what you would call a living hell.
As much as I would like to blame someone else or put another person in this category the truth is in my walk, my experience and what I have come to believe today is it that person is me, Yep Myself!
I've had many difficult people in my life and what I found is that if I don't deal with them properly and set up the proper boundaries then they don't treat me so well. They overstep and take from me, drain my energy, and become an energy vampire or a leech that will take anything that I'm willing to give. Years ago I was such a people pleaser that I would give anything to be apart of a group to have certain friends or just the kind of fit in.
So as much as I want to blame some of those people I blame myself for not knowing myself enough to know how to say no, when to say no, and where to put my limits in life. That was a big lesson for me.
I was My Own Worst Enemy, I had to put down the weight and get out of my own way. Now that I've learned some of these techniques my life has become so much better. There's more ease, there is limits, and boundaries that I set for myself to keep my energy high and going so that I don't get burnt out and blame others for things that are happening in my life.